Tai
Chi Chuan and Political
This
political season has brought out an interesting tendency, noted in the New York
Times in the past year. I have a good
friend who always always always relates to political topics from the emotional
point of view. That is, if it feels
right, it must be so. But of course, we
are all like that. What happens next is
that we select facts that support our feeling.
So we self validate and feel right.
Then we pick our sides, look at commentary that agrees with our feeling,
news shows that agree with our feelings, people who agree with our
feelings. It gets deeper and deeper
until any opposing argument is handily ignored.
We can no longer hear anything but our own feeling data base of
facts. She will bounce off any and all
suggestions to the contrary, sometimes even calling them lies because they
don’t agree with her feeling data base.
I
myself try to listen to other ideas and facts, but I am still going to relate
to my own feeling database. She really
doesn’t seek out facts. I do. But even facts can be fishy or incomplete. Today it is hard to find the facts.
So
what does this have to do with tai chi?
In tai chi, we give up ourselves and follow the other. We play THEIR
tune, not ours. That is why it is a
constant challenge. I would say
furthermore that the context of the whole is very much a part of the tai chi
experience. You involve you, them,
ground, air. It is a big picture, not
the small picture. In this regard, it
may help move us past our own feeling database and check into what is real, or
missing, or whole. Often the isolated
fact may lead you to the wrong conclusions.
You need more than that.
This
is abundantly clear in push-hands where the two of you have to read a situation
that is neither me, nor you, but both.
Reality is two sided.
In
the recent Presidential debate, October 10, Romney was declared the
winner. One reason is that Obama did not
stick and follow. Romney made a few moves, and Obama silently
listened, but did not respond. It was
perplexing. Romney was on the attack and
that is also a dangerous path. It showed
up in the second debate where his accusation was simply false. The media was on his case immediately but a large
portion of the population didn’t care.
If
you say to my friend, “Free enterprise”, the world goes blank and that is all
there. Or all that matters. But life is not like that. Try that in push
hands and you are in for a big surprise. This is not a big point, but it is an
important point. One that truly changes
how you might operate as you navigate the koan of life.
I
hope your tai chi practice creates more questions than answers, more curiosity
than certainty.
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